Drug testing

Sex and Dating Rule #20 ? No Saturday Dates after Wednesday

What? You say. No Saturday dates after Wednesday? What is this 1952? Well no it's not, it is 2005 and sometimes old dating rules still apply to later times. Why does it matter you ask? As long as he's asking you out then it shouldn't matter. If he's asking you out that means he's interested, who cares if he calls you Friday afternoon for a Friday night day. Right?

Wrong. It does matter when he's asking you out. And this why: People value their weekends. In a world where people can easily clock sixty hour weeks the time they have off is precious and important to them. People want to enjoy their weekends, so most people tend to plan their weekends in advance. They like to know what they are doing and who they are spending their time with. So if a guy is calling you Friday afternoon for a Friday night date then it probably means whatever other plans he had fell through and you're his plan B. And I don't know about you but I don't want to be anyone's plan B.

Still don't believe me? Look at it from this point of view: You teach people how to treat you (a theme you will here me repeat time and time again) and by accepting a last minute date from someone you're sending the message that not only is your time not valuable because they can call you anytime and you'll be free but that you'll drop whatever you're doing to be with them.

Even if you didn't have any plans you don't want to send the message that you're available whenever they feel like calling to ask you out. The bottom line is when a guy is really interested in a girl then he's going to make plans with her early in the week because he'll be afraid if he doesn't she'll have plans with someone else. So like I said, if you're getting that weekend phone call for a date, then you weren't his first choice. And no one ever wants to be second.

(C) 2005 Tamika Johnson

Tamika Johnson is a freelance writer and owner of PrologueReviews.com. To read more articles by Tamika or to have your music, film or book reviewed visit http://www.prologuereviews.com

limousine chicago service
In The News:

Confessions of a Professional Matchmaker

Don't make these mistakes when searching for love online!"I spent... Read More

Free Online Chat! What Are The True Costs Of Free

As you're surfing the Internet and coming across titles claiming... Read More

From Friend To Boyfriend

One of the most frequent questions I am asked is... Read More

Dating Opportunities Are More Abundant Than Ever Before

Dating, there are many thoughts that word brings about. Many... Read More

Hooking Up vs. Lasting Love: Its Your Choice

"hooking Up" - "friends with benefits" - "booty call"These terms... Read More

Guys that Beautiful Girls Want: You Can Be One

"Our attitude toward life determines life's attitude towards us."- Earl... Read More

Why Not Average Joe: Exploring Melanas Choice

Admit it. You snickered, rolled your eyes and laughed out... Read More

Dating On The Internet Is Growing! See How Online Dating Can Help You Find Available Singles Today

Dating on the Internet is growing rapidly year after year,... Read More

Best Places to go on a Date

Does the waiter know how you like your steak, and... Read More

Looks or Heart?

No matter how you want to spin it, beautiful people... Read More

Trick Or Treat - Is This Make-Believe Or The Real Thing?

"I'll call you this week". "Yes, I'd love to see... Read More

I Found Love On a Online Dating Site

Over the past few years, I discovered a few personality... Read More

Are You Dating a Potential Cheater?

Most single woman seeking a committed relationship would rather avoid... Read More

Choosing an Online Dating Service

The task of choosing the best dating site to join... Read More

Fatal Flaws- How to Have a Happy Relationship and Keep Your Values Intact

If you are knee deep in trying to find a... Read More

Safe Cyber Dating

Cyber dating is one of the most popular dating venues... Read More

How To Repel The Opposite Sex

There is a war between the sexes. This war is... Read More

Faster, Cheaper, Better ? P2P Online Dating Software

There is one thing we all know for certain when... Read More

Tips For Becoming Fluent In The Non-Verbal Language Of Dating

We are all too familiar with the term "body language".... Read More

So, How Big is Your Penis?

As a result of dating for decades and chatting with... Read More

Say My Name

Surely you remember that famous line from American Pie, when... Read More

How To Land The Catch Of Your Life Without Becoming Sharkbait

However you like to do it, dating is a dangerous... Read More

Dating Service Tools for Individuals Seeking Singles Online for Fun, Friendship and Marriage

If you're wondering what it means by dating service and... Read More

Body Language

Next to your internal mindset (which should be relaxed, confident,... Read More

10 Tips for Succeding in Dating!

Generally the most important step when dating someone is the... Read More

energy saving street light lightbulbsusa Pete's produce ..